...lved with sex work. (If you’re feeling organizer-y and want to start one yourself, I’d love to hear back.) You might c***ider asking if your girlfriend knows anyone in her line of work with an awesome partner you could talk with. If you do happen to find or start a community of sex workers...
...act with the person you’re talking with. You have to figure this one out yourself, and you may need to compromise where possible in order to accommodate whatever makes the people you’re talking with comfortable. Remember to treat them like the human beings they are — not a trophy to be wo...
...why you’re making this into a thing that feeds feelings of inadequacy in yourself. Once you’ve got that under control, you should probably find out what your partner thinks is key to sex and relati***hips. She, like lots of other people in the world, might think that intimacy is more of a priori...
...tarily, go from ‘this was a nice conversation, and you take good care of yourself’ to ‘let’s get naked together’? Or, how come an old acquaintance who is a cool person one day suddenly shifts gears and starts to creep on you the next? So, in this context - after some time, and ...
... I Googled her was to Google myself. And here’s the thing about Googling yourself: it’s as dirty as it sounds. You know what I mean? It is — it just is masturbating. You have this urge to do it, but you don’t want anyone to know you’re doing it. And the thing is, just like masturbating, pe...
...ave money lying on the table: Recognize that this is an opportunity to let yourself truly feel good.Really savor this positive experience. Practice what any school teacher knows: If you want to help people learn something, make it as intense as possible—in this case, as felt in the body as possibl...
...aution. Have an "elevator pitch" ready. Practice a quick description of yourself and your housemates so that when you talk to the landlord or agent, you make a good impression. During your chat, your prospective landlord may ask you questi*** such as "Why do you want to move out of your current ...
当生活中有些时候似乎什么都不顺心的时候,当你感到悲伤、无聊甚至懒散的时候,知道如何让自己振作起来是很重要的。也有一种沮丧的感觉,你没有被任何人爱。你感到孤独和沮丧,这表现在你的脸上和行为上。不...
...ense) vs. 惊喜(surprise) 悬念和惊奇是经常联系在一起的两种感觉。这是两个关键因素,使读者粘在一个故事。然而,悬念和惊喜之间有着明显的区别。悬念是对可能发生的事情感到兴奋或焦虑的状态或感觉。惊奇是一种由意想不到...
...n a related point, think about walking away ahead of time. If you convince yourself that you HAVE to have the item in question, you're likely to adjust your reservation price on the fly, which is always a bad idea. This happens with frequency in timed aucti***, where people tend to incorrectly perce...