我们在tl80投入了无穷的精力来思考正确的礼仪。如何平分账单，如何与同事聊天而不至于太过分，如何与粗鲁的朋友打交道，如何与粗鲁的陌生人打交道，在电子邮件或社交媒体上发生的各种令人不安的互动……还有很多。

2018年也不例外，我们的礼仪故事风流韵事，从猫交朋友到放纵地回答。以下是我们今年以来的最佳礼仪报道：

捡别人的垃圾

Garbage cans fill up. They fall over. Weather happens. People make mistakes. You can’t fix it and you can’t run away from it. Well, you could move to Japan. Or you could pick up the trash.

不要邀请你的伴侣参加朋友聚会

Do not be the person who brings some rando who sits by the cheese plate and has to have everything explained to them.

停止在社交媒体上发布陌生人的照片

People don’t tacitly sign a waiver agreeing to have their image, goings-on, and physical location splashed all over the internet just because they dared to leave the house.

当你的孩子盯着残障人士看的时候就这么做

Everyone knows that you can’t expect a 4-year-old to understand norms the way an ***** does—they’re going to stare. So when you see it happening, you can simply say, “Let’s go over and say hi.”

你为什么要善于闲聊

In my opinion, **all talk has another purpose, which is to ease the way towards forbidden topics. You’re giving people a chance to get to know you, and see if they’re comfortable with sharing more, and then a little more.

拿起该死的电话来点你的食物

Smaller restaurants often get caught up in a vicious cycle of using Seamless to support their business, then doing business to support Seamless. Unfortunately, there’s no clever hack around this: you just need to pick up the damn phone.

以防回答所有的问题

The BCC is the digital equivalent of pulling everyone aside separately at a party to tell them the same thing.

当人们不喜欢你的时候怎么不在乎

You don’t need to go around antagonizing people, but if someone doesn’t like you and the feeling is mutual, you don’t necessarily have to go out of your way to appease them, either.

把门开着并不难

At some nebulous distance there is a phase change from “don’t hold the door open” to “hold the door open,” and misjudging it will ruin your life for as much as five seconds.

如何让猫喜欢你

Allergic people and spurned cat lovers agree: It feels like cats always head toward the one person who doesn’t want their company.

如何在不做**的情况下嘘别人

Most people don’t know that they’re being loud. So if you need someone to quiet down, don’t act like they’ve personally affronted you, or committed a grave injustice.