2018年度最佳禮儀建議

我們在tl80投入了無窮的精力來思考正確的禮儀。如何平分賬單，如何與同事聊天而不至於太過分，如何與粗魯的朋友打交道，如何與粗魯的陌生人打交道，在電子郵件或社交媒體上發生的各種令人不安的互動……還有很多。...

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我們在tl80投入了無窮的精力來思考正確的禮儀。如何平分賬單，如何與同事聊天而不至於太過分，如何與粗魯的朋友打交道，如何與粗魯的陌生人打交道，在電子郵件或社交媒體上發生的各種令人不安的互動……還有很多。

2018年也不例外，我們的禮儀故事風流韻事，從貓交朋友到放縱地回答。以下是我們今年以來的最佳禮儀報道：

撿別人的垃圾

Garbage cans fill up. They fall over. Weather happens. People make mistakes. You can’t fix it and you can’t run away from it. Well, you could move to Japan. Or you could pick up the trash.

不要邀請你的伴侶參加朋友聚會

Do not be the person who brings some rando who sits by the cheese plate and has to have everything explained to them.

停止在社交媒體上釋出陌生人的照片

People don’t tacitly sign a waiver agreeing to have their image, goings-on, and physical location splashed all over the internet just because they dared to leave the house.

當你的孩子盯著殘障人士看的時候就這麼做

Everyone knows that you can’t expect a 4-year-old to understand norms the way an ***** does—they’re going to stare. So when you see it happening, you can simply say, “Let’s go over and say hi.”

你為什麼要善於閑聊

In my opinion, **all talk has another purpose, which is to ease the way towards forbidden topics. You’re giving people a chance to get to know you, and see if they’re comfortable with sharing more, and then a little more.

拿起該死的電話來點你的食物

Smaller restaurants often get caught up in a vicious cycle of using Seamless to support their business, then doing business to support Seamless. Unfortunately, there’s no clever hack around this: you just need to pick up the damn phone.

以防回答所有的問題

Illustration: Elena Scotti (Photos: Getty Images) The BCC is the digital equivalent of pulling everyone aside separately at a party to tell them the same thing.

當人們不喜歡你的時候怎麼不在乎

You don’t need to go around antagonizing people, but if someone doesn’t like you and the feeling is mutual, you don’t necessarily have to go out of your way to appease them, either.

把門開著並不難

At some nebulous distance there is a phase change from “don’t hold the door open” to “hold the door open,” and misjudging it will ruin your life for as much as five seconds.

如何讓貓喜歡你

Allergic people and spurned cat lovers agree: It feels like cats always head toward the one person who doesn’t want their company.

如何在不做**的情況下噓別人

Most people don’t know that they’re being loud. So if you need someone to quiet down, don’t act like they’ve personally affronted you, or committed a grave injustice.