如何养育好孩子(bring up good children)

做父母是有压力的,但也是有回报的,为了成为一个好父母,你必须造就好孩子。好孩子没有普遍的定义,但本文将提供一些一般性建议。选择你觉得最适用的步骤。...

步骤

  1. 1教给你的孩子你的家庭规则(以及那些你希望他们遵守的规则)。这听起来可能很严厉,但你必须把界限带进家里,而且要尽早做,因为这样他们在你惩罚他们时就不会那么难过。体罚在某些地方是非法的,许多人,包括儿童护理专家,都不相信打孩子的耳光。研究一下惩罚和行为调整技术,如淘气包法、责骂和警告-警告-惩罚技术。
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  3. 2阅读。为你的孩子阅读,并与你的孩子一起阅读。不要让他们习惯于整天看电视。读到他们入睡,也给他们教育书籍,教他们自己阅读和写作。
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  5. 3为你的孩子做个好榜样。虽然你的后代显然不是类人猿,但在或多或少的程度上,猴子看猴子,猴子做猴子。你不应该做一些你希望你的孩子不做的事情,即使他们不在你面前。
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  7. 4教他们保持健康,拓宽他们的口味。用水果和蔬菜喂养你的孩子,尽可能多地提供不同的品种。这可能会帮助他们成为好孩子。教他们刷牙。鼓励他们在早上和晚上刷牙和梳头。你应该扩大他们对不同食物的口味,但不要强迫你的孩子吃他们不喜欢的味道的东西。
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  9. 5爱和尊重你的孩子。随着你的孩子长大,他们希望得到更多的尊重和隐私,但同时他们在内心深处希望得到你的爱。学会尊重,给他们更成熟的爱,不涉及接吻。
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  11. 6永远不要按照 "如果你想表现得像个孩子,我就把你当成孩子 "的说法。这并不奏效,结果只会让大孩子更加生气。
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  13. 7教育他们。你应该问他们今天在学校做了什么,他们喜欢什么,不喜欢什么,特别是他们觉得什么是困难的。
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  15. 8让他们做自己。不要为他们选择卧室的布局,或告诉他们什么工作不能做,什么工作可以做,这让他们感到无用和烦躁,他们也可能害怕会让你不高兴。
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  17. 9让年长的兄弟姐妹感觉参与到年轻的兄弟姐妹的生活中。年长的兄弟姐妹不应受到冷落,也不应让他们觉得自己必须成为一个榜样。让年长的兄弟姐妹感觉参与到弟弟妹妹的成长中,但不要把做父母的责任推给他们。
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  • 发表于 2022-03-10 03:09
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