在访问美丽的日本时，围绕着Youtuber Logan Paul和他孩子气的滑稽动作有很多争议。好吧，如果你不知道，当你去陌生的地方时，有一种方法你应该也不应该这样做。日本人已经知道这些规则几百年了。

早在1810年，Yasumi Roan就为日本旅行者写了一本终极指南：Ryoko Yojinshu。这里充满了多年来从其他旅行者那里收集到的技巧、窍门和建议，以及过去的各种著作。这是一个如此大的打击，这本书仍在今天出版，其中包括一个英文版本称为阿福在日本，由威廉斯科特威尔逊翻译。罗安知道交通规则，也知道在离家不远的地方当客人该怎么做。

“You should not idly reach out your hands for fruits like Japanese pears, persimm***, citr*** and mandarin oranges being grown at houses or gardens by the side of the road, now matter how ripe and plentiful they are. And of course, you should not mistakenly step on grains inside a village or garden that are being laid out to dry. If people complain about your acti*** in an area not your own, you will not come out on the best side of the argument, be you right or wrong.”

看起来很明显，你不应该拿走或破坏别人的食物，但这里的教训并不是真正的水果和谷物。注意最后一行。你旅行时要格外小心，以免得罪别人。不管你认为你是对的还是错的，如果当地人不喜欢你的行为，你就不会好看。所以，也许不要到处乱跑，把死鱼和章鱼的部分贴在人们的脸上，以供观赏。

“When you encounter young ladies, female grass cutters, or women in a group that is crossing your path in the mountains or on a path across the fields, it is best to offer a simple greeting but not to follow up with any more useless talk. Also, you should not thoughtlessly laugh at the countrified expressi*** of someone you may meet [on the road]. Be aware that trouble may begin from trivialities.”

再次强调，这里真正的教训不是你应该如何对待**（不同的时代和文化），而是要知道底线在哪里。小心你所说的和你所笑的，特别是如果这是因为一些不同的东西。不要拖延你的欢迎时间，不要问粗鲁的问题，不要发表评判性的言论，不要指着和你不同（或做着不同的事情）的人发笑。

“When anyone goes to an area unfamiliar to him, [he will find that] various ways of speaking and customs will be different. As the words are different from the place where he lives, he will be accustomed to hearing them, and unaccustomed to seeing what is around him. Though he will think these things to be strange, it is certain that the people of [this unfamiliar area] will think the same of him. It is a mistake to be unaware of this and to laugh at the customs and language of another place. To laugh at and distain another’s words or phrasing can be the source of an altercation.”

你可能会认为一些不熟悉的食物或习俗很奇怪，或者认为你所访问的国家的人很奇怪，但他们肯定会认为你是一样的。嘲笑或看不起异国的风俗和人民是给自己**麻烦的捷径。当你真的**了这样的麻烦，你让其他人都像你一样难看。记住，当你旅行时，你是你祖国的非官方使者。

“Things that you should not stop to look at while on the road: fights, arguments, gambling, games of go or shogi, village dances, village sumo matches, a person accidentally killed, or the place where someone was killed. By and large, you should not stop and gaze at places where many people have gathered together.”

我不敢相信人们需要被告知这一点（看着你，洛根），但目瞪口呆（或记录）事故，打架，争吵，或尸体是粗鲁和不尊重，无论你在哪里，但特别是当你是客人。不管发生了什么吸引了很多人，你都不关心。你不仅没有卷入这起事件，你甚至不是一个有权被关注的公民。必要时通知当局，否则继续行动。现在，罗恩还把游戏、舞蹈和相扑比赛列为你不应该看的东西，但既然这些东西基本上已经被认为是旅游景点了，你可以继续看下去。用你的脑子。如果你在观看某件事情展开时感到尴尬或不确定，不要逗留，为了怜悯，不要拍摄它。